Tuesday, August 28, 2007

Shattering beliefs about social dynamics

Not too long ago, I was known as “Mr. Nice guy.” During the first couple of years of my college experience, I noticed that my college professors would treat me like a doormat, but the most interesting revelation came when female professors, whom I initially thought that as a result of my being nice, supplicating and “generic” (a WUSS) would have led them to help me. WRONG! If anything, I learned that the “college professors” who were supposedly above making generalized and subjective judgments, like the public. My entire paradigm, completely shifted when I discovered that the same professors who were so quick to “blow me out” (rejection), quickly performed grading favors, extra study materials, etc. In today's age, there exist an unparalleled benefit that comes with the cultivated skill(s) with women, the following:


1) Waiting for “fate”, “luck,” or any other manifestation of creative avoidance, severely limits you in all your social interactions (this includes: interviews, jobs, scholarships, grades, women).


2) To get the type of woman you want, you will have to learn how to be good with women in general.


3) Without a thorough understanding of social dynamics, combined with the potential inability to assert yourself, people with walk all over you.


4) Adopting a frame of scarcity coupled with being “generic”, since you lack the basic skill set to attract women, causes jealousy, insecurity, and neediness. And results in you getting yourself “TOOLED” by society.


5) The confidence and social skills you build learning to be good with women will help you to maintain a better relationship and make a better role model, for your brothers, and for your kids.


6) You may not even know what kind of woman you really want until you have had some experience dating.


7) Again, The confidence and social skills you build learning to be good with women will help you in all areas of your life.


8) Being a failure with women is being a failure at one of your core purposes and can leave a dark cloud hanging over all of your other accomplishments.


9) Being good with women is fun.


10) Being bad with women sucks.

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